Friday, May 06, 2005

NewNews

I heard it described by my friend Joe Hays as a rollercoaster ride... I think now we truly know what he means. Well, to some degree. Today the doctors delivered some "hard to take" news that the brain activity from the MRI, showed some acute trauma to the brain, that may have or did cause Noah's current state. How, where why... still questions.
So today before lunch, we had the news that "this may be the best he will get."

This afternoon, after going in to visit with my little nephew, it was evident to me, the news we received did not necessarily correspond to the things I saw. He arched his back, he would twitch every once and a while, certain sounds would come out of his mouth. Julie said at one point, a few hours ago, he held her finger when she put it in his palm. He curled his toes when they would tickle them. He flinched to the coldness of the thermometer. He made a "gagging" sound when they were sucking out saliva. And all of these "changes" occured after the doctors said there would be a zero chance of recovery.

I guess God may have a different opinion. For the prayers of the righteous are powerful and effective. We all know there is a fine line to walk from the doctors perspective, in delivering news. You dont want to be too optomistic and give false hope, but you dont want to shoot down any hope at all. Yet... somehow, you have to say what you think is going on, and what solutions or results will come from that testing. We, as believers in a God who gave his Son to die, and raised Him from the , know the impossible is possible.... with God. There is not really a "no chance" when you talk to a believer. There is always that "eternal healing" that may be the answer ... but God could decide that Noah needs to be in the arms of his mother.

One of the nurse practitioners was telling Julie that in acute traumas from a lack of oxygen (which is what they are saying occured in Noah) would cause damage to the brain, but its a mystery of his situation now. Why? Because in most cases, when there is a lack of oxygen, the other organs begin to fail first. Kidneys, liver function, stomach, bowel movements, lungs, arms, and finally the brain is the last to fail. But here we have a little boy, Noah Allen Whaley, defying the norm of medicine. His body is breathing on his own. He is excreting fluids he is taking (breast milk they are giving to him via trache-tube). He reacts to certain stimuli now. The DR even tested his eye reflexing by moving an object quickly with a flick of his(Noahs) head with the movement.

No chance of recovery? No chance. Prayer is our medicine. Prayer is our source of communing with God. Prayer is there because a life was given so that we could have hope and faith in a God who loves us. I'm sorry for the quick bad news earlier today, but I reckon this may be how things go for some time.

Ethan spoke to those of us in the waiting room today, after visiting with the DR's about the love he has for this boy of his. No matter how he is, or how he will be, right now he is proud of his son, and he loves him. It's God's gift to Julie and Ethan. And its evident they truly love him.

Julie expressed her respect to the neuro team for their knowledge and God given abilities, but said "my hope is in God. Something higher. Its Him I trust. It's God."

KEEP PRAYING. thank you friends.
steve

8 Comments:

At May 06, 2005 5:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Julie, Ethan, all the Ellers - please know you are in our hearts, our thoughts, and definitely our prayers. God is in the miracle business, and we pray for one now for Noah.

Lawrence and Sharon
Duncan, OK

 
At May 06, 2005 5:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Still in prayer. With much love, tears and petitioning.
Rob & Lisa

 
At May 06, 2005 6:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Whaleys and Ellers,
Your faith is strong and God will bless your faithfulness. Noah is God's creation and He loves him so. We continue to pray for God's healing for Noah and for strength and understanding for the family. Thanks, Steve for your updates on the web site. We check it often.

May the Lord be with each of you every minute of every hour. May each of you find peace and rest in knowing that God is in control.

Your friends in Christ,
Sharon and Steve Martin
Missouri City, TX

 
At May 06, 2005 7:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don and I want you and your whole family to know we are praying. We know and believe God can do anything, and that includes restoring a baby's brain. We are praying that he will perform a miracle on Baby Noah. Thanks for keeping us updated, as we are eager to hear every day. We love you all. Don & Judy Avera

 
At May 06, 2005 8:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ethan and Julie-

All of our thoughts, hopes, and prayers are for Noah and all of you. We are checking all the time for updates on how he's doing. You're both amazing people and I can't think of anyone better to give that little guy all the love he needs.

We love you,
Blair & Nicole

 
At May 06, 2005 8:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please know we are thinking of you all and praying for you all.
Ryan & Cheri Nienstadt

 
At May 06, 2005 10:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ethan, Julie, Steve, and family,

We have been praying for all of you and especially for your baby boy. Already, Noah's bravery and God's miracles through his life are an inspiration to all of us. God bless you all.

Kenny and Libby

 
At May 06, 2005 11:06 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

We love you guys and yet we are so helpless to heal your hearts. We are with you in fervernt prayer for precious Noah. This is a journey that I know you would never choose to take but the Lord will direct your path. He will carry you when you are too weak to walk and He will find beautiful ways to give you joy in the midst of all the chaos and uncertainity. We may not know what tommorow holds but we know Who holds tommorow...Praise God!!!
Darrell and Bridget

 

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